Friday, November 10, 2006
Current mood: content

[this blog entry includes comments that were received via MySpace]

I’ve noticed that there’s a point where a person begins to lose their youthful flexibility. I’ve also noticed that the cases I hear about where models got shoulder/arm nerve damage, were not usually models in their 20s. From my observations, somewhere between mid 30s and mid 40s, a person’s body begins to lose flexibility. Riggers have to be sensitive to this and not “crank” a lady’s elbows together behind her back. Just because I’ve seen photos online that show that a model was able to get her elbows together easily a few years ago, isn’t a reason for me to assume it’s still doable for her now.

Anyway I noticed I began to stiffen up some years ago, so to work with that, I don’t do long-term elbow bondage any more. For instance during sex, Jon generally adds the elbow-rope last.

For some reason, though, lately I’ve been a bit more flexible than usual, so that’s given us some fun. Last time we were in bed, Jon did a lotus-hogtie with elbow bondage on me, used the vibrator on me, had sex with me (that takes a little doing with the hogtie), and then used the vibrator on me again afterward. I was really surprised and happy.

And he didn’t even have to “crank” my elbows - they went together pretty easily all on their own :)

9:28 AM - 8 Comments - 9 Kudos

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Pete Puma

Obviously you guys are a good case for the benefits of patience and adjustment! Sounds like you are having most excellent times!

Posted by Pete Puma on Friday, November 10, 2006 at 9:46 AM

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cyber_tease

At age 52 I’m certainly not as flexible as I was and it’s almost impossible for me to get my elbows together behind my back (though in part this is due to injury). But a buckled harness tightened patiently a notch over time can add to the fun and teasing and achieve the desired effect ;-)

Posted by cyber_tease on Friday, November 10, 2006 at 5:06 PM

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Duct Tape Messiah

Lotus hogtie during sex, but you’re not as flexible anymore, color me confused. I’m continually impressed with your abilities, regardless of age (then again I’m a year or two behind you and I have arthritis, it sucks)

Posted by Duct Tape Messiah on Friday, November 10, 2006 at 7:14 PM

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WestBound

You think that`s bad?, take a look at my profile photos. I can`t even get my elbows anywhere near each other never mind touching which i would love to achieve.

Whatever`s making you more flexible at the moment shouldn`t be pondered, just enjoyed

Posted by WestBound on Saturday, November 11, 2006 at 11:04 AM

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Richard

Hey, we’ve got to get you in front of a camera again!

Posted by Richard on Saturday, November 11, 2006 at 2:11 PM

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I Put The “F-U” In Fun

Mmm.. Elbow bondage.. Your right though when you want to really enjoy some bondage you need to try to stay good and flexible. I recently joined the.. *gasp* gym because I noticed I’m not quite as bendy as I used to be :(

Posted by I Put The “F-U” In Fun on Wednesday, December 13, 2006 at 6:50 PM
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